Step yo game up
Ladies – There IS a shortage of men out there. We outnumber them a good 7 to 1 in the best of places. But PLEASE believe that just because there is a shortage out there that all niggas ain’t shit.
There’s a lot of women that sit around complaining that they can’t find a “good man” who’s making the six figures, got 3 degrees, ain’t got a good car, job and no kids but fail to look at themselves first.
- You just BARELY got your GED
- You ain’t GOT a car
- You have 5 kids by 4 daddies
- You aren’t doing anything to elevate your situation but sit around and complain that your manager is full of shit
Now tell me how you could POSSIBLY think that this mythological handsome successful man is going to find and/or fall for you? What are YOU bringing to the table?
Let’s flip the script. You’re successful, smart, beautiful and even if you have kids, you take care of them on your own. Dude from the hood where you’re currently staying with no job, 6 kids and no car tries to holla at you at whatever place you happen to be together. Would you give him the time of day?
Yeah, me neither.
Step yo damn game up before you complain about there being “no good niggas out there”. BITCH YOU AIN’T NO GOOD YA DAMN SELF.You give trash, you’re gonna get trash in return. Elevate yourself. Keep your legs closed. Above all, stay classy. Stop actin like a hood chick and make somethin of yourself. Damn.
Agreed, again. A lot of people expect more then what they’re willing to give their damn selves. I know quite a few motherfuckers (male and female alike) who expect everything to be handed to them and give nothing in return. Then they bitch when they don’t get what, when and how they want it. I was actually going to blog about it today.